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Forgiveness: St. Maria Goretti

Forgiveness of Saint Maria Goretti

On this Feast of Saint Maria Goretti, I thought it worth revisiting this post from 2015 because her story on the power of forgiveness is a lesson for us all. (Originally posted on Oct 28, 2015).

Does Forgiveness Elude You?

Forgiveness is difficult for many of us; yet, not so for young St. Maria Goretti.  Maria died at age eleven, from mortal stab wounds caused by unwanted advances of a young man. Yet, astonishingly, Maria’s last words evoked forgiveness for this young man. She not only forgave him, she openly prayed for him, while suffering from those stab wounds prior to her death.

How many of us would be so forgiving? How many of us pray for those who wish us harm or have hurt us physically, emotionally or spiritually?

I had the honor of venerating her relics at a special ceremony at my parish in Charlotte, NC on Oct. 24, 2015. What does it mean to venerate saintly relics?

…those who have an affection to any person hold in honor all that was intimately connected with him. Hence, while we love and venerate the saints who were so dear to God, we also venerate all that belonged to them, and particularly their bodies, which were once the temples of the Holy Spirit, and which are some day to be conformed to the glorious body of Jesus Christ. ‘Whence also,’ adds St. Thomas (Aquinas), ‘God fittingly does honor to such relics by performing miracles in their presence’ (New Advent.org/relics).

At the ceremony, you pass by St. Maria Goretti’s casket, praying for her intercession on your own behalf, or for someone you love. You offer forgiveness for your own past hurts, as well as forgive yourself for your own past sins. St. Maria Goretti’s casket and her relics serve as a reminder of the person who once walked the earth and now resides in Heaven. The entire occasion resembled a funeral, where one would walk past a casket and stop to say a prayer.

Prayer to Saint Maria Goretti for Forgiveness

Dear Saint Maria Goretti, your heart was so full of mercy, that you gladly forgave your assassin, and prayed that he might be saved; intercede for me before the Lord, Whom you now behold face to face. Ask Him to pour His grace into my soul so that I may always be ready to imitate Jesus as you did. I choose you as my friend this day and I ask you to accompany me my whole life long. In honor of the Most Holy Name of Jesus, and in the imitation of your example, I forgive all who have ever hurt me or who desired my suffering, and I ask pardon of all against whom I have sinned. Through Christ Our Lord,  Amen (courtesy of mariagoretti.com).

If forgiveness eludes you, while you try to find the strength to forgive someone, then you just might want to reach out to St. Maria Goretti for a little assistance. Remember, we will receive the amount of forgiveness for our sins to the extent that we forgive those who sinned against us.

This post also appears on Association of Catholic Women Bloggers, and Top Catholic Blogs.

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18 Responses to Forgiveness: St. Maria Goretti

  • Forgiveness is very hard. A number of years ago I was mugged by three punks on a dark street not far from my house. They didn’t hurt me; they just cornered me and ran their hands through my pockets and took a couple of items. I didn’t even have my wallet with me. It was rather innocuous as far as muggings go. But still I was so angered and altered that I held a grudge on those punks for years. Finally I just let it go, and actually thanked them in my prayers. They held some knives as weapons and could have physically hurt me, but didn’t. I forgave them, but it was after years. I know St. Maria Goretti’s story, and I can’t imagine how she could forgive almost on the spot. That is saintliness.

    By the way, just last month my parish was honored to have hosted the relics of St. Maria Goeretti. That’s why my eye caught sight of this post. You can read about it and see pictures here:

    • Thank you so much for sharing the photos in the attached link! I had my camera ready to take some shots and we were told, “No photos!” These pictures, and your post on “Ashes from Burnt Roses,” are fantastic! Thanks for sharing your thoughts too. I hope you’ll stop by and visit again. – Peace, Virginia

  • Thank you so much for prayer answered. Family relationships are getting better. After several years some of my family members did not acknowledge each other. Two of them did so this past weekend. I am so happy for this. I need to continue praying for the other 4 members. I just started praying to St. Maria Goretti about 2 weeks ago and this happen with 2 family members. Thank you St. Maria Goretti, St. Therese the Little Flower, and all the Saints I have asked for their intercession. And our Heavenly Father.

  • Thank you for posting this prayer to Maria Goretti about forgiveness. Could I ask for your prayers for my adult daughter who was assaulted two years ago. We both are praying to be able to forgive the man who did it. Maria Goretti was her confirmation name when she was confirmed ten years ago. This assault is still giving her nightmares. I keep praying for the grace for her and our family to be able to forgive and move on. It has been very hard. Thank you.

  • Please pray to Saint Maria Goretti to help me forgive the love of my life . He says he is sorry and I pray to forgive him I don’t know how. He hurt me to my soul. I need help forgiving him please pray for me.

    • Lisa Marie: You have my prayers. I ask that you also ask Maria Goretti to pray for you. She has helped me greatly to finally forgive two people after 54 years of pain. She can help you too! With Gods Grace – Virginia

  • May I ask for prayer to help me forgive my husband. He has betrayed me several times and I am having such a hard time getting past the heartbreak, broken trust, and pain. I know that with Saint Maria Goretti’s intercession that I will be able to forgive and move forward. Thank you so much.

  • May I ask for prayers? I was assaulted when I was 10 years old and haven’t been able to live past those nightmares. I recently met someone new and I unintentionally responded in a rude manner. And I don’t want to lose this person overall. has a great soul.

  • please pray for Damianus aditya and myself. I have been waiting for reconciliation and to forgive each other, peaces for me and him, I have been struggling with pain. You always know what was happened because You see everything a most hidden corner, in suffering and disappointments. I come with a broken heart, his heart so hard, he doesn’t respond to anything. Father, please soften and touch Damianus aditya christie heart and the people around him for me. I can’t touch his heart, his family considered my poverty, making me unequal to them. i know that prayer is a powerful thing. Without Your graces, we cannot accomplish anything. only God can change people’s hearts. only you are God the only place I complain, only you god where I pour out my heart, god i’m desperate, please help meplease help me face things that are beyond my capabilities. because God, You have power to help me. he still avoids me, I really need a miracle, thank you

  • Jesus modeled forgiveness on the Cross when He said, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23:34)

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